Whew...dating apps suck.

Now before yall get ya panties in a twist....Im speaking from personal experience.

Men on dating apps are so insufferable. NOT SAYING ALL. IM SAYING MOST. In my personal experience, everytime I download an app, I always get met with some of the most egregious messages.

I have it clearly listed on my profile I am looking for a relationship and only that. I go through my likes, full of men looking for short term and casual, nothing I am interested in. Underlined and bolded. Yet here comes Joe, matches with me going 'LeMmE bEnD yOu oVeR!' and I get the ick everytime.

Or something about my skin color. Mark matches with me and goes "good morning my delicious chocolate nubian queen." ICK!

Or I get a match, things start off normal, then BAM. They say they are looking for a 3rd or a kink situation involving more than two people.

I see everyone complain here about the lack of matches or how rarely men do get matched but I wonder about those that do get matches. Why do men so this kind of thing? Why cant conversations be normal before you want to stick something in me?

And I will stress here, yes I feel bad for those that get little to likes. Yes, I know there are good men on dating apps. No, I dont want to have a discussion about me being 'ungrateful' about the attention I do receive as I dont prefer to be looked at that way. And no, I am not dating at this current point and time because of these issues.

Alright, thoughts and opinions?