Has anyone found a wired bra with projection that actually is comfortable for a whole days wear?

I'm talking about that the bra is that comfortable that you come home after an 9-hour workday and you don't need to take if off because you don't notice it.

I've done the ABTF calculator and I'm an EU 85K. Wen't to a professional plus size bra store and they fitted me in an 85I.
Over the years tried all sorts of bra's but to be able to give me good lift and projection my band obviously needs to be tight. When I'm sitting down (I tend to slouch, don't judge) by belly is constantly pressed against the wires and after a while it just feels compressed and stabby.
Even at the store they said that 'even the most comfortable wired bra is slightly uncomfortable because of how tight it needs to be, and everyone responds differently'.

At home I just wear CK bralettes but I hate my shape in them. And I don't mind wearing a bra for the 8-hours at work, I just take it off when I get home. I'd just prefer something that I actually ENJOY wearing and gives me a good shape.
During vacations I hate wearing a bra (especially with hot/humid weather) so ideally looking for something that still gives me a good shape but is as comfortable as a bralette.