What is your favorite thing people say to dismiss ADHD?

What the title says. It just appears as though ADHD is widely misrepresented and people don’t do their due diligence before commenting on it which can lead to some crazy, uninformed statements like: "Everyone has a little ADHD these days!" or "you can’t have ADHD! You’re very calm.".

It would be interesting to see, what all the misinformation has done to how ADHD is perceived.

Edit: I‘m glad to have been able to give you this outlet. A lot of you seem to have needed it. (especially now during christmas where you need to talk to your extended family)

Edit: Oh man, what have I created? I‘ve read every single comment and felt my heart rate increase with each one.