AITAH for (f25) "controlling" my bf (m22) because he cannot keep his priorities in check?

Hi everyone.

My bf and I are in a LDR (he grew up in my country but moved back to study) and we've been dating for nearly a year (we were friends for 3 before dating)

The reason for this post is because I'm starting to feel like a mother at this point. There are quite a few issues, but the biggest one and most recent one is his struggle to balance uni work/staying up late. It's become a pattern where he will miss 1 or 2 classes a week because he decides to stay up late (3/4 am) gaming, yet he's telling me he's staying up late to do "uni work". One night I caught him out on it and we had a massive fight, saying I'm controlling him etc etc. I tried to explain that I'm not trying to come off controlling, but I'm concerned. He has multiple big assignments due beginning December, and is lying about getting them done. His uni is the thing KEEPING us in a LDR, once he's finished studying we are supposed to be closing the distance. Now I'm not judging him, because I'm a gamer too and i was 22 at one point, so i know the craving to game all night, but I know my priorities. I have a full time job, so I know when I work the next day, I HAVE to sleep at a normal time. I apologized to him for technically "stalking" what he is doing but I feel like if I keep quiet he will just keep lying to me/not feel pressured to actually finish his stuff. He's in final year for God sake.

AITAH for checking up on him/asking him to prioritize him uni work more? Whenever I bring it up he calls me controlling and saying I need to "worry about my own life" and "he's got his life under control"