AITAH - banned from a sub cause a lawyer told us she is divorcing her cheating husband and I asked, “you didn’t add an infidelity clause in your pre-nup?”

Definitely wondering if AITAH here.

I am in a sub full of lawyers, and OP posted about how she is divorcing her husband who is cheating on her and how she is looking for a new job because she’ll be a single woman now.

Edit: more context, OP also goes on to write how her husband isn’t contributing money even though he makes way more than her, and that due to child support laws she’ll be getting very little money.

The lawyer in me goes, “an infidelity clause could be a safeguard for alimony in case the marriage dissolves.” Also this is a sub of all lawyers, talking about marriage dissolving and contracts is typical.

I admit I am not a woman, so maybe I am biased here but I asked her: “Damn so sorry to hear that. you didn’t add an infidelity clause in your pre-nup?”

Well, after posting that comment the Mods banned me for breaking their rule: No incivility and unprofessional behavior.

What? I was genuinely asking a follow-up question to a subject that OP directly brings up herself.

AITAH?!?

Edit: also after being banned from this sub, I messaged the mods to explain to me why this was an offense and all they say is. “We do not need to explain how you violate our rules.”