Weakness on left side - terrified

Hello! My parental grandfather and paternal aunt both passed from ALS so the gene is in my family. My dad currently has dementia. A couple years ago I had an incident where my left side felt numb and weak where I suddenly couldn’t have any strength on one side. Doctors said it may be a TIA (small stroke).

Since then the left side of my mouth has been a little off. A little tiny bit crooked but barely noticeable.

Over the past month or two, I’ve noticed some scary symptoms. My left side feels weaker than the right off and on. Left side of mouth had minor twitching before when stressed. I now feel like i got a face transplant on the left side. The left side by my mouth is bit numb. My lip feels like it’s not resting normally. Left foot - toes feel a little numb. Left hand feels like “dead weight”. When i grab something it feels less firm on the left side. I’m not dropping things but i do feel weakness. When i smile my left lips do look a little bit lower, barely but a little.

We’ve both been very stressed lately (job losses, financial issues, family health things and more). I know anxiety can cause some of this but we’re both freaking out right now. I can’t get to a neuro for a couple months because this country’s medical industry is a mess and a disaster.

Worried this is early signs of ALS. I know it could be MS or stroke signs too. Or it could be anxiety… very scared because our insurance is garbage and we’re trying to to survive after a very unexpected job loss. Not sure what to do here to stop anxiety from making us both spin out of control. Does this sound like ALS? Or something else not as catastrophic?

Thank you all. Feeling at the limit from all that’s happened in our lives the last 3 years. It’s been brutal. One thing after another. Really Hoping this isn’t ALS.