Daughters of cheating fathers, how did it affect your view of RS/men/marriage and how did you cope with it when you first found out?

As the title says, to all daughters of cheating fathers or know others who had cheating dads, how did it shape your view/beliefs of relationship, men and marriage and how did you cope or deal with it when you found out about the infidelity (if it's someone you know, feel free to share what you know about them and their situation with regards to the question).

I've always had this deep rooted distrust towards men and hence have always been single (31F) with no desire to get into any relationship despite my asian parents and relatives pushing multiple times. I've always wondered where this distrust and discomfort came from, but recently I've observed and learnt that my dad isn't emotionally faithful to my mum (not gone to physical cheating yet). My dad is pretty much emotionally/mentally not present with us most of the time and is always on his phone texting other women (I found out after noticing his sus and secretive behavior). I think my mum suspects something too and is just choosing to ignore it because of avoidance yk.

I'm having a bit of a struggle now because my view of my dad has been shattered basically since I found out, and even if it's a relatively recent discovery I suspect this could have been going on for many years and kids can usually pick up on things without consciously understanding why (might explain my aversion towards men and relationships). I'm more conscious of a deep rooted belief I hold now (but still unable to change it) that men are or will eventually be unfaithful (be it emotionally or physically or both) and I'm afraid of getting hurt. Could use some advice and I'm open to hearing all your stories which could help me process my current inner conflict as well.