Much needed wake up call

Hello, I am currently in a long-term relationship, dating not married, with someone who is sweet and seems to really love me. I say seems because sometimes it feels like they don’t accept all of my traits and as such I feel like I’m losing myself in order to make them happy. My friends and some of my family says I should end the relationship and move on. But my big fear is what if they are the one and I walk away from this. I don’t know what to do. But the longer I drag on with this I think it could be worse. I need a third party opinion.

And if you’re wondering well do you love them? It’s both yes and no. My love is teetering between friendship and relationship. So that’s where I am at a loss. I feel like the answer is simple, I know it is. But still.