Is AlAnon right for me?

I basically feel like I live in this sub now after ending things with my Q. lol (now my ex, we were together 4 years, broke up 2 1/2 months ago, he reached out recently saying he’s sober and wants to work on things and I painfully said no). While I’ve been on the sub for about a year, I have never attended an AlAnon meeting. I’m exploring the idea of attending AlAnon meetings even though my Q and I are no longer together. As I reflect, I know deep down there are problems with me that I would stay with someone who showed me multiple red flags and disrespected me time and time again. I really don’t want to get into that situation again. Are AlAnon meetings still right for me even though I don’t actively have a Q in my life?

Thank you, and I truly appreciate the community I’ve found here. Thank you all for being raw, vulnerable, sharing your stories and giving advice. I don’t think I would have been able to leave my Q without being a part of this sub.