Ugh..

My husband and I are separated but no one in our family knows yet so we went to my cousins house as we do every year for holidays and his family after. We been sleeping in separate rooms for months and today at his sisters he was telling a story and decides to call me a bitch and I didn’t get mad and just said “don’t call me a bitch” and he said “well you are” and continues his story. I just felt so disrespected because even though we aren’t together I didn’t once disrespect him at my cousins house.

So when he said that I am a bitch I got upset and went to the bathroom and texted him that it was unnecessary to say that and it’s time to go home so we go home and he said he would call me a bitch at my cousins house too.

Mind you, I know he’s mad I won’t go back to a relationship with him because of how paranoid he is as well as his constant accusations of me cheating and I honestly think he’s throwing a fit and acting like a spoiled brat because I don’t want to be together anymore. But am I over reacting? Because now he’s saying I made something out of nothing