Some of you’ll just want a roomate to split expenses with!
Ok downvotes incoming but here is an observation and some unsolicited advice.
I know AM is transactional but your entire marriage need not be transactional. Some of you’ll are obsessed with 50% financial contribution. Some of you also say that you are looking to get married just to have someone to split expenses with!
Do you really plan to split every expense 50%? Like you go on dates and use divide the bill? Or vacations? Or cab fares?
And so much so that you wouldnt support them if they want to quit working for any reason. To start something of their own or if they are experiencing a burnout.
I think of you are unwilling to support your life partner in such times, it’s best to search for a roommate.
I hope if nothing, you’ll are at least honest with everyone to talk to. Just tell them frankly, “I will expect equal financial contribution from you, till either of us die. You cant expect any kind of financial support if i am your spouse”, so at least they can run far far away from you.
Also just out of curiosity, if you are bad in bed (which most desi men are), and only you climax most of the times, can she charge you what a premium seggs worker would for every session?