Why do men act like women aren’t lonely?

I’m writing this sitting by myself at home on my 29th birthday. I realized today I’ve been alone my whole life no friends, no family and on top of that as a woman people aren’t generally kind to me or offer me a helping hand. I see men in the same situation as me and people are much kinder and sympathetic to them. This is just what I’ve seen personally. I was also inspired to write this after seeing that men are apparently suffering from a ‘loneliness pandemic’ what about us countless women who are lonely too and get on with things and don’t make it everyone else’s problem?

edit: wow i had no idea so many people would see this post. I wish I could respond to all the comments but I just want to say thank you to all the women (and some men) who have taken the time to explain to men why are our experiences of loneliness matter too.

Thank you to those who are taking the time to explain that loneliness and lack of sex are two completely different things and a huge thank you to everyone who send me birthday wishes i appreciate it!! 🩷