I got remarried and it was the best decision I have ever made

I was married to my LDR boyfriend of 2 years and it turned out to be disastrous , I hardly felt like I was living "married life". My ex husband who initially seemed loving became abusive ,manipulator and grade A moron soon after we got married. I was in pretty abusive marriage where my ex used to emotionally abuse me , after enduring all this for 1.5 years I finally decided to call it off and gave him divorce. Fortunately my family was supportive throughout all this which made me to stand for myself.

After years of depression and therapies when I was finally ready remarriage , a distant relative introduced me and my parents to divorced guy who was his acquaintance and told us that he is looking for remarriage ,he proposed me his match for an arranged marriage set up ,I was bit sceptical about it first coz I barely knew him but thought to give it try.

Soon after we met we got along really well ,he was so calm and composed and genuinely interested in getting to know me , I felt so ease with him , we both liked each other and got married at 33 after knowing each other for enough time.

It was the best decision I have ever made , my now husband is gem of person ,its been 2 years we are married and I am having best time of life , past two years have been blessing to me .I love how he is so calm and gentle to me and nurtures me ,It’s only after experiencing an abusive relationship that I’ve come to fully appreciate what it means to be with a good man. I realised every small thing he does for me like from him randomly giving me head massages to never forgetting to kiss me before we sleep and when we wake up daily .How he always notices when I’m feeling overwhelmed and brings me a cup of coffee without me asking. We both equally do house chores but on whenever I am busy he quietly take over chores like cooking dinner just to make things easier for me and absolutely the great sex!! all these things were so alien to me in my first marriage.

I am very grateful and glad that I met my husband and I love him so much ,my inlaws are nice and my parents are absolutely happy seeing me happy with my life . I got on reddit after years and seeing all the negativity here thought to confess something happy post on cozy winter hehe . To all my dear ladies who are going through such traumas or went through it please don't afraid to call it off , life is so liberating afterwards and there are absolutely good men there to make you feel cherished and deserved of all the good things.

TL;DR - got married 2nd time after my first abusive marriage and couldn't be more happier:)