What’s a “man secret” you learned way too late in life?

For the longest time, I thought being a man meant keeping everything to myself never asking for help, never showing when I was struggling. I figured everyone else had it all together, so I had to as well. Turns out, most guys are just winging it and hoping no one notices.

Another thing? I used to think confidence came from being the loudest or the toughest in the room. But honestly, the most confident guys I’ve met are the ones who don’t feel the need to prove anything to anyone. That was a game-changer for me.

What’s something you learned way too late? Could be a mindset shift, a life skill, or even just a simple habit that made life easier