Would you date a 35F with grey-ing hair

i 35F stopped dying my hair during lockdowns and have a grey thing going on. It’s totally natural and I love it, but my husband hates it. We’ve been having issues and after pressuring him on why he has not shown me any physical (non sexual) affection in years, he burst out that it’s my hair, and he hates it. I also chopped most of it off so it’s short now, right above my collar bone (I had c0vid twice and it destroyed my hair). I think it’s cute but maybe I’m biased. I’m not sure what to do because I absolutely won’t dye it, Not only due to the chemicals but just the cost and the upkeep. It’s a no from me. I am trying to grow it out but it has to be healthy to grow and he whines every time I go and get a trim 🥺😰 So are there men out there who actually like this? Or am I basically doomed? I know it ages me but I like being my authentic real self and it hurts that my husband does not like this about me