Men over 30, what made you outgrow your binge-drinking and going to bars/clubs every weekend stage?

I want to ask if this is something that people outgrew or if this is something that follows their whole life. As a woman in my mid-20s, I only care about peace of mind. Going out and drinking does not appeal to me, I feel like I had a fair share of that when I was a teen. But I wonder if this is the only way men socialize and if its something people "outgrow".

Thank you!