Please recommend a good mental hospital in NYC

I’m going through it and I think something’s seriously wrong. Can someone recommend me to a mental hospital that won’t do things without my consent or traumatize me? I have good insurance, I’m 22 yr old girl in Manhattan. I’m a POC and I have ARFID and definitely some personality disorder. Thank you. 😔 (I’m not going for ARFID I’m going to get diagnosed with what personality issue I have)