i have always done this...is my Adult autism connected?

recently self/Therapist diagnosed with ASD. i may ask to get properly diagnosed the more and more i read..

one thing i have ALWAYS done, especially with my wife is, if lets say she says "we are having family over for dinner this weekend" and i see an issue with lets say someone is a little sick, and i am concerned. i will tell my wife my concern, and she will acknowledge and say "it will be ok" or "she is not really too sick" etc.....i find my self telling her over and over the same thing regarding my concerns, until i get her to the point she gets upset and will tell me "Yes...i GET IT" ...but i keep saying it, because i dont feel heard...that is how i makes me feel...

is this behavior tied to autism?