"A real woman curves"

I hate this statement so much. Why do people feel the need to put one down to make others feel better?? Why not something that says that a real woman can have many different shapes and sizes??

It makes my BDD so much worse. I hate myself, I hate my body, I hate these disgusting excuses of breasts. I will never look like a "real woman" if I don't pay hundreds of thousands of dollars for it. I'm disgusting and disfigured. I just want to die as I will never be loved by anyone because of how disgusting I am.

Edit: I meant to say "a real woman has curves," but I was having a really bad episode while writing this, so I didn't notice the typo I made.