Was Bret an enabler?
On the latest episode of the podcast Bret describes himself as an enabler in regards to Todd’s behavior. Todd didn’t have a job so I believe Bret provided him with allowance. So, Todd used Bret’s money to buy drugs and file several lawsuits. I believe Bret is an enabler and neglectful too, he admits to essentially ignoring the issues with Todd because he was caught up in his work and they led separate lives. I understand that their relationship was complicated and both have their own demons, as people they’re both messed up and have acted poorly. If you live with someone, you should be more consciously aware of what’s going on in their life? This isn’t an attack on either one of them but an opinion based on what I’ve seen, read and been told.
Anyway, that’s my personal opinion, but what do you all think?