My wife

My wife has the mutation and now at 30 years old her boob has a very light red tint in one area and is tinder and there's a lump deep inside her breast. The doctor is ordering her to be seen urgently and to say to least we're freaking the fuck out. We have been together 11 years and we still have a great marriage, we have 3 kids. She is truly my rock and she's a great wife and mother. My mental health was already a complete mess without this scare and now I just can't sleep. I'm sorry, I don't know the point of this post I just needed to write this out.