I really hate the way diaper bags look- has anyone ever not used one or used a regular purse?

For background I’m someone who loves bags/purses. Nothing crazy but I do enjoy finding decent leather bags. I just hate the look of diaper bags. I’ve looked at everything, the itzy ritzy bags are okay but too overbearing and expensive for a plastic material bag. We’re also not big travelers, so I’m not sure a giant bag is necessary… has anyone used something like a coach bag/ real purse still while with baby?