TW: Assault, need your opinion

Hey friends, I wanted to share a really bad experience that happened to me last Saturday at the berghain floor toilets and would love some opinions concerning what I should’ve done.

To put a bit of context, I only take K, always in a friendly and silly mood. At that moment, I had lost my girlfriend and my two friends for about 30 min.

I was leaving the urinals, really high and tripping on k, when this guy (seemed on G) came in. Our eyes met, he smiled at me and I smiled back. But more then a smile, he then caressed my waist, and stopped next to me, without a word. I then asked him if we knew each other (in a smiley friendly manner). He then grabbed my hand (his other was holding a glass) to get closer to me and hug me, then said: “ No, but now we know each other”.

I laughed, and that’s where things got weird.

He grabbed my hand again, and pulled me towards the urinals, then behind the urinals next to the bathroom windows. I told him: “Babe, we don’t play in the same team”, but he didn’t care or listen. By huge coincidence, next to these windows behind the urinals, my girlfriend was showing something to our two other friends (real ones will know 🌚). We brush past them as he pulls me with insistence towards the closed toilets, passing in front of my friends/gf.

My gf knows me and knows when I’m tripping, she saw at my smile and when our eyes met that I seemed confused about what was happening and something was off. He then pulls me in a toilet, I say: “My girlfriend is right here”. He turns to me, looks me straight in the eye and answers: “it doesn’t matter”. My gf followed us, feeling something was off, grabbed my hand before he was able to shut the toilet door and pulled me out.

We sat on the radiator next to the windows and toilets, I was trying to explain what had just happened, we then waited 5 good minutes waiting for him to come out of the toilet to explain to him he can’t act like this and must ask for consent. But unfortunately he left right after my gf pulled me out, without us realizing.

As I was really high, I maybe didn’t take the situation as serious as it is….

What should’ve I done ? The club wasn’t very packed on Saturday during Quelza’s set, I probably could’ve found him and talked to him.

I want to add I am not here to demonize GHB, but we all know a lot of people unfortunately don’t know their limits and intake with it.