I’m starting to loathe single mothers

He guys so all my life I put blk women / single mothers on a pedestal but as I got older and that frontal lobe starts developing and listing to manosphere and always scrolling thru tiktok and seeing single mothers complain and seeing the high child abuse rates in the community commuted by blk women mostly , I’m starting to get this feeling of wow I really loathe blk mothers because majority of them are not ish for example: my family was basically a matriarch a failed one but never the less a matriarch these women had the power to exile the pedophiles from the family but nope they layed comfortably with out question , majority of the mothers hates us (their daughters ) my grandmother treated my mother terribly my mother treated me terribly and my aunt treated my cousin terribly , I only had one aunt who had a daughter that did right by her (but they were young single uneducated moms who didn’t know better , but when it came to there baby boy mannnn their mothers treated them some good and they can do no wrong but their daughters (us) we were so mistreated and abused . As I scroll thru TikTok and I see single mothers complaining I used to feel empathy but come to find out the have 3 kids by 3 different men ( and Ik a lot of black women have trauma which causes them to have kids to finally get Love but they don’t think of the consequences of their actions) which may cause them to abuse the child because of stress , poverty and much more . A lot of blk mothers are jealous of their daughters youth and beauty and have a feeling in the back of their mind that men their interested in will probably be interested in their daughter (which happens but the mother always picks men above her children ) . It happens to my half sister and she still thinks about how the cps worker told her mom to choose that man or her child who get to stay in the house she’s still pretty messed up abt that. I’m sick and tired of hearing women lay down w blk men and get suprised when they become a single mother and then complain on tiktok but it’s all over my fyp , I’m tired of single mothers and it’s causing me to loathe them .