6 chalazia at once please help me

I just want to cry I'm so depressed. I keep getting these nonstop and right now I have SIX. I've been to multiple specialists who all tell me "I'm doing the right things" for prevention. My eyes aren't even that dry they say. No mites either. wtf can I do? I feel another small painful one coming and I'm seriously going to flip out. I never had one until I had a baby last year.