I broke no contact and it was a good idea

Hi guys, i know we arent doing well if we are here, but i broke no contact last sunday after 1 month of not speaking and to be very honest i feel better, these few days i feel much better. I dont know if its temporary but it is what it is now. It was only because i read a comment here saying we are not robots, we are allowed to feel and sometimes its okay to act on it. I kept it short, i went to an orchestra it got to me , and i reached out to him , kept it subtle and nice BUT instead of keeping the convo going i ended it saying 'Lets talk another day and maybe if we can see each other sometime in the future , that would be nice' ofcourse this is optional but me and him had decided to meet up once we feel better and ready. So i think the key here is not to drag the convo, keep it mellow and chill and not needy, and DONT ASK QUESTIONS YOU DONT WANT TO HEAR THE ANSWERS TO. End the conversation yourself. You'll know if they want to talk more and this also gives them the opportunity to do the same in the future. I know NC is healthy but sometimes its okay to reach out , worked well for me so i guess for some people it'll help too (i think it depends on how the breakup was, in my case we ended it on a positivr note although i didnt get the closure i wanted) Good luck hoomans. We got this!!! Sending hugs to everyone❤️ i'd love to read if y'all reached out though :)