Let them stand on their decision to loose you.

"As much as it hurts, guys, if someone is literally willing to lose you, let them stand on that decision. LET THEM STAND on that decision. If they are okay with never seeing you again, never hearing from you again, not being with you again when they had the option to make it work, let them stand on that.

Someone who really values you, who values your presence, who values you as a person in their life would NEVER gamble on your presence. like ever. it wouldn't even cross their minds. and it's not your job to teach someone or make someone appreciate your presence in their life. if they can't see it, then that's their loss."