Write your New Years text to them here. Don’t text them.

I know a lot of you are probably feeling extra emotional today, but rest assured you aren’t the only one. I myself have been pretty down today.

I know a lot of you are thinking about how you were supposed to spend this New Year’s Eve with your ex and go into 2025 with them, but rest assured you aren’t the only one. I’ve been thinking the same thing.

I know you want to text your ex happy new year, but let me ask you this… have they reached out to you? Have they asked how you’ve been? Have they asked to see you? Have they checked up on you? Have they unblocked you yet? Are THEY gonna text you happy new year?

Before you let temptation take over, think about those things. Actually… don’t think. Don’t text them. Say what you have to say here. And if you do text them… consider if you’re ready and are in a place to handle their or response - or lack of response - without it affecting your healing process.

One last thing: if they wanted to go into 2025 with you, and if they wanted you in their life, you’d be in it. Simple as that.