The dating expectations these days suck

I've been on Bumble for a couple of weeks now. Had a few conversations that were mostly pleasant dead ends. But I've observed that the thing that gets me ghosted most often is:

I don't give my phone number before meeting that person face to face.

I don't give out my address so he can "pick me up"

I don't drink on a first date.

I'm not willing to promise sex to someone I haven't even started dating yet.

I insist on first dates being in public places with lots of people.

To me this is just common sense for a woman in the dating pool. It just sucks to have to explain this but I'm learning that a lot of men aren't aware of or maybe don't care about safety.