Would this be offensive?

Hi so I'm 18m with cp and I wanted too write a story with a main character whoo also has cp who loses his wife and becomes a single parent to his young child. I wanted to show daily struggles but also that people with cp are alot more capable then people think we are alot of the time.

You see I'm just worried whether this would be contributing to the way people with disabilitys are portrait as victims in media alot of the time which i don't want to encourage I just wanted to make a story about both grief and cp struggles while also having the joy of a child.

Even though this story will probably never be seen by anyone I still thought I'd get an opinion.