Why childfree?

Asa everyone, Hope you're all amazing. I have a question, very simple yet complex, why are you childfree? Especially in a country where it's seen as a crime haha. What are your reasons?

I'll go first 👹

I think having a kid is a huge responsibility. I am loving and caring but I just don't want to have a baby of my own. I have babysit my cousins and I have younger sisters too jinkay liye I have always cared. I never had a maternal instinct kick in. I love my cats. I don't want a kid enduring any sort of trauma. Why have a baby when his/her primary caregiver isn't keen on having them? Being the eldest and having family issues, I always had to be there for everyone now I want to achieve my career goals, travel, live happily and explore life with my husband (non-existent as of now 😭👍). I just have alot to do.

Secondly, I work in a hospital. I've seen pregnant women struggling with so much. I've heard their screams during labor. They say giving birth is like surrendering your body. I talk to them and all and bas afterwards bhi after delivery there are so so many problems. So yeah birth trauma (tokophobia).

Now your turn 🫵🏻