Woman in men field

Today i was studying suddenly there was a beep sound in the comp lab. i went there to check. push power button. i guess had to hold for longer. suddenly a guy friend came and make it stopped.(hold the power button) .so told me "eta blast hoa jeto tmi samne gia darai aso" i said i was about to do the same. he told me " paro to nai " ... is it in my head? or he did dirty to me?

Few days ago i made slides for group presentation that guy didnt know where the slide show icon was. i simply point out so he doesnt get embarrassed and thats how they treat me. when i confront him. he told me to get better so people dont call you out. and if i had self respect this shoudnt bother me. i called him arrogant. he said thats how he encourage people. Islam said you cant mock someone what they cant change . these things isnt forbidden in islam. he was so defensive and make it worse.

i have noticed in my uni some people wont even start a convo about career simply cause im a girl. People tell me to build a network but its really impossible. im on my own. i have looked for a girl who is ambitious but coundnt find one. so i guess i cant blame them either. im really trying to improve.

why do you have to treat us so poorly ?

Edit: my major is compsci