Something has ignited and it’s wonderful

During my relationship/marriage in the beginning, we had a really good sex life. Sadly, it dwindled over the years, a lot of it was my fault saying no or not being in the mood. I chalked it up to stress, and most times do it to make them happy..but after getting divorced, I realized it wasn’t the stress.. I just wasn’t sexually attracted to my ex.

Working through a lot of trauma/stress/ self worth in therapy I’ve discovered that my sex drive didn’t change and it wasn’t gone.. in fact it was more prominent now than ever.. I just wasn’t in it with “them” anymore, because my needs weren’t being met therefore it being basically turned off.

They say that your body will give you signs if you’re not with the right person… and it surely did I just ignored the signs…I haven’t been with anyone in about a year, but I can feel it being dangerously close and I’m excited yet nervous.

Posting incase someone is going through the same 💙