We need to talk about family vlogging

Shari Franke’s book just came out describing harrowing details of growing up with a camera in your face in the home of an ab*sive parent. In her own words, “there are no ethical family vloggers”. The implication is that your child’s right to privacy is revoked before even getting the chance to consent. The ethical considerations of family vlogging are plentiful — even if a child consents (which children technically can’t do), what child wants to disappoint their parents? Plus the conversation around your kids knowing their participation directly affects family income and livelihood…

I really, really think there needs to be more awareness around family vlogging. I think it’s inherently exploitative. The Ballinger Family, for example, replied to a comment about Shari, saying that they’re proud of her but “that’s not how our family operates.” I’m sorry — the last time I checked you filmed your kids since the day they were born, removing their right to anonymity. What part of that am I not understanding? It’s exploitative whichever way you spin it. Girlies - please deep diiiiive!