Have a small ship, ally to the faction owns settlement, requested to dock and got it, have board delivery mission there. Still get trespassing?

I am at my end with Odyssey, and cannot find an answer anywhere for why the terrible and subpar A.I. that is always shoot first ask questions later terrible is making this a tress pass zone. Is there anything I can check, verify, more I can do, or is Odessey just this terrible?

Also, have EDDiscovery installed, and going, not seeing a thing log wise to explain this.