anyone else's parents just act casual when reaching out like nothing happened?

I often see a lot of long messages sent to us from parents, posted on here. I do not want to dismiss you guys- as it is apparent how manipulative they are and I understand completely. But whenever my parents reached out, it was so casual and they have never even acknowledged me ghosting/going no contact- they never asked why I left? Its just like "hey lets get a drink next time im in nyc" or "wanna go see barbie movie with me" from my dad. Like, I havent talked to him since 2018 and never will. Or my mom found me and her letters were just all about her. Like nothing ever happened. Its so weird to me- but shows how their minds truly work. They think its charming to act all non chalant, as if its funny and will work to get me to answer.