Hear me out…..sometimes texting your ex is worth it

Long story short me (24F) and my ex (21M) broke up. I broke up with him because he wasn’t treating me right at all and I never felt emotionally safe with him either.

I hit the anger stage of my grief and wanted to get everything I had to say off my chest. Naturally, my friends told me this wouldn’t be a good idea but I ended up doing it anyway, and I’m glad that I did.

I think during no contact, we forget why we broke up with someone in the first place, and after texting him I finally realized again that he is literally an asshole lmao. And texting him really just gave me the clarity I needed.

I can finally move on knowing I said what was on my chest, and that he is NOT my person!!