Is being trans really this lonely?

Hi, I am new here and new to posting on Reddit in general tbh so be gentle with me.. I officially came out about six months ago and started testosterone three months ago, but the process has been lonely to say the least. I feel like I have lost so much in the last six months of my life some of them related to being transgender and some of them not, I lost my significant other of seven years because he is a heterosexual man and is not comfortable dating someone who is a man and as much as I respect that it does hurt me deeply.. I come from a very broken family, My mother is in prison, My father is estranged from me. I live in North Carolina and find myself very isolated from any queer people in general. And then last Monday, my dog who I have had for the last 13 years passed away.. I guess this is me feeling a little bad for myself, but also looking for advice on how to find a queer community?