the whole sandi thing

disclaimer this wont go into anything with the server or drive or whatever, that has nothing to do with me that was all john ezax and cancer lorde.

if you don't know me, i am the person who made the original thread on sandi, and when i look at this subreddit, all i really see is people who want my head, and if u want it then good for you but i feel like a lot of the reason is because of things people have said i did or have said i said, when i really didn't and i want to clear it up. i have little faith anyone will read this without the red filter of hatred towards me, but if you do i am very grateful.

general things i have heard i wanna clear up:

- not once have i EVER called sandi a pedophile. i have expressed the opposite multiple times and have spoken down upon those who call him one. sandi was 15 when most of this happened and is 16 now, common sense will tell you he is no nonce.

- i am not john ezax. i dont know why people think that but we are totally seperate people. i dont even like john that much i think he has his head too far up his own ass thinking he is some great detective when that isnt how u should go about all this.

a full timeline of events:

in june on 2024, sandi (15) followed arey (13) and they became friends on discord. sandi asked arey if they had fat fetish art drawn of their oc and arey said "no but they wish" so sandi contacted biveregretevato (17) to do it, not telling her arey’s age at the time. So bive drew it and then for around a week afterwards, sandi and arey would erp, then they would stop talking after all this an go their separate ways.

in december of this year, I was sent the art (which i mostly forgot about) and around 2 weeks later, the besting drama got me thinking about arey again and i remembered the art and posted about it bc i thought it was really weird (keep in mind at this time i thought sandi drew it cus thats what i was told) i questioned sandi about it, in which he lied to me, and tried to manipulate arey into lying to me to save his own image which didn’t continue for very long. this then led me to making my thread because i felt, and still feel, that having the truth out about any situation is of the utmost importance. i knew people would react negatively to all this, but ig i put too much trust in them acting civilly bc they went fucking rabid which was a little annoying.

this then led to sandi being kicked off pretty much everything and more importantly, leading to cancer lord spreading the word about the server, shared all the stuff about clocky, polygon etc, and then john made his doc and that got real popular. then people started twisting things as i said before, so yeah this is the definitive timeline of events.

im honestly annoyed at how many people are just spreading false information about this whole thing. slander on me, john, arey, sandi etc is not something i tolerate and its upsetting to see the thing i put out to spread the truth be manipulated into a lie. ik a lot of people wont read this and will just blindly say "fuck cornelius he got rid of the guy i liked so i shouldnt hear him out and i MUST send this 14 year old some epic death threats" but if you did read this, then i thank you sincerely. if you want anything elaborating i will more than gladly do so.

relevant links:
my main initial thread that started all this

my correction to the thread with info arey gave me (sandi asking arey first and the erp stuff)

the post with johns doc (privated for now)

the john doc with the server stuff

prolly wont use this subreddit again unless its to answer meaningful questions under here btw. thank you and goodnight.