Driving Instructors asking you to meet them

Anyone get this? I've had this from 2 different instructors who'd ask me to meet them somewhere (close to test centre or somewhere handy for them) knowing full well that I can't drive unaccompanied & that I shouldn't be asked to either. It really pisses me off as it puts me in a shitty position where I either have to say it and miss my lesson or spend 15 min driving across town utterly anxiety ridden. I'm so sick of this shit.