Unhealthy Anima manifesting into insecurity

Hello everyone, I would like to present a bit of personal information about myself and perhaps someone in here has insight.

Growing up I never had a good relationship with my mom because she never had time for me, I believe this has caused me to have an unhealthy anima that presents itself as insecurity and lack of confidence around girls.

How would Jung try to fix this if I was one of his patients?

Edit: after reading some replies I realize I should mention more details, I’m quite social in general, this problem only exists when it comes to socializing with girls I see as attractive, the more attractive they are the more nervous I get (higher heart rate, nervous tone), growing up I never really had a relationship with any girl.

I suspect this is because of some feeling of inadequacy / obsession with my physical appearance. When I was younger my mom used to comment on my physical appearance in a way that perhaps made me insecure about it. I believe there is nothing wrong with myself now as im very athletic, taller than average, good face, but the problem still exists in my mind.