Upcoming kink conversation

Wife is pretty vanilla. I’ve told her I want to talk about adding some things in bedroom to add some more fun for both of us. She told me she is really shy / uncomfortable about talking about this, but has agreed we should talk. Not looking to script it out too much, but in general I want to emphasize that nobody has to do anything they aren’t interested in trying, and we can explore at any pace she is comfortable with.

For starters I will share a couple of things I’d like to try, but the first talk I’ll only bring up a couple of (what I think anyways) things that are fairly tame. For example I’ve been pegged by another woman and would like to do it with my wife, but that would be something to work up to, if ever. So I’ll tell her I’d like it if she rubs my ass, and run her fingers around my hole. Baby steps. Save discussions on kinkier wants for later, and see how things are progressing.

I’ll ask her if she wants to share anything she wants to do, but if she doesn’t want to talk then, she can tell me another day.

Suggestions on this approach are appreciated. Add, delete, change anything? I’m not entirely comfortable with this either, but I need to take the lead. Who knows, once we get started maybe she will be kinkier than I thought.