Boys club
Bro, are you in any men group/club? Ata kama ni group ya WhatsApp? I mean a group you can do things together, help a bro, rebuke a bro, take a bro somewhere when he has a function, come through for a bro when he's down, advice a bro, connect a bro to opportunities job or bizz, etc etc . I'm not in any and I would really want to be part of one.
If you're in one, are you taking in any strangers? To become part of you.