Food recommendations

My boyfriend wants to get Korean BBQ but I’ve never had it (my family is super picky and some don’t like anything spicy or flavor beyond salt it’s frustrating) and don’t want to get stuck looking at the menu overwhelmed. I have a rice allergy (I can have small amounts in sauces but not a full bowl of rice). Any recommendations on things I should get or avoid? I do like spicy stuff and want to try something new. Thank you!