Struggling with UW Control Match-Up [Modern]

Hello. I'm posting this because I have played against a UW Control player at my LGS three times now and have only managed to win a single game across all three matches. I had played against a few decks with counter-spells at my old LGS, including a UW Control deck, and it felt like waiting for my opponent to overextend generally felt like a good strategy. However, the UW Control deck I have been playing against has felt virtually impossible to punish, or at least in the hands of its pilot. Between Solitude, Subtlety, and Force of Negation, there is lots of free interaction that allows the UW Control player to interact with my spells and board, even if they have little mana or are tapped out. Additionally, the longer I wait for an opportunity to punish them, the more cards they get in hand and the more changes they have to stick a game-winning Solitude or Subtlety on-board. I am wondering if there is some fundamental flaw with how I am approaching the match-up or if I simply need to abandon the typical play patterns vs. counterspells in favor of blitzing the opponent and hoping for the best. I should also clarify that I generally can't get within Exquisite Firecraft range (i.e. getting them down to 4 life), so adding that back to my sideboard likely won't help me very much. Thank you for your time in advance.