I hate this

I hate how when straight women are trying to make a point about men they have to be like “well if lesbians can-“. I hate the idea being perpetuated that lesbians have to “control themselves” like men. Do these people realize we deal with the same shit from men but like x20 ? Then there’s also the idea that lesbians can do no wrong when it comes to women. It reminds me of how a lot of people think queer relationships can’t be toxic/abusive. Idk that whole sentiment of “well if lesbians can control themselves then xyz blah blah blah” just screams “tell me you know nothing about lesbians without telling me you know nothing about lesbians”