How do I become a better girlfriend/“housewife”

I(22F) and my partner (24M) have 2 kids together and have been together for 6 years. I am wanting to become a better girlfriend/“housewife” per se. Not exactly a strict dinner on the table when he gets home aspect but more caring/loving/attentive. I slack in the house part in cleaning due to lack of motivation and I want to do something to make it up to him. We have a date night Friday coming and I want to do something special. I don’t mind if it’s nsfw. I’m open to any options.