Couples with different political beliefs, how do you not let it interfere with your marriage?

When we were dating, we knew we had different political beliefs. We didn’t push our ideas on each other. After we got married, he became more political and started to resent my beliefs. Even though I voted for Romney, he continued to resent me for previously voting for Obama. Long story short and after couple counseling, we agreed to not discuss politics in our home, only with our friends. We agreed our marriage and family is more important.

With the recent world events, he’s become more involved with politics in a negative manner. I understand being unhappy, stressed, and upset with inflation and rising gas prices but I don’t appreciate that he somewhat blames me and seems to resent me. I told him and agreed that I’m upset and unhappy too. I’m not happy just like many other Americans on both parties. His comments are hurtful. I told him that last week. He apologized and stopped, but continues to make sarcastic, hurtful comments.

Not trying to make it political, so please spare me in the comments.

If I could do it all over again, I would’ve dated with someone with similar political beliefs because it has put on strain in our marriage. I thought we can be respectful of each other. It hurts.

edit: getting some nasty comments/DMs. I’m a moderate; he’s a conservative. I’m not here to argue. There are separate subs for that. You’re entitled to your own beliefs and I’m respectful of that. We can both be unhappy/unsatisfied with the President from any political party!

update: Thanks for your responses. I’m slowly responding. I’m upset and sad right now. We’re currently not talking. We’ve been through therapy a few times but I don’t think it will help us. We are just two different people with two different view points of life. We made it work for 15 years, but it was tumultuous. I’m tired and torn. He obviously has issues. It’s not fair that he’s taking it out on me. I’m not going to deal with this for every election or world event. I’ll be talking to my therapist about this.

update 2: Spoke to a therapist. We reminded ourselves to respect our different beliefs and not to discuss politics in our home or in front of each other.