How is it when daycare costs end?

Hello! Curious for people who had daycare/preschool aged kids who now are in elementary school or beyond. People keep saying “there’s not really a light at the end of the tunnel” when you factor in camp and after school care and more activities. Luckily with our schedule I think we can avoid any before/after school costs. I know summer camp is pricey but I spent $33k on my two kids this year for daycare and I HAVE to think it will feel differently not having that huge expense every month. Could you put more into retirement? Was it easier to budget? Thanks!