90k for Couple in Hawaii

I am married and my husband is Japanese. I am from Miami, but we would like to move to Hawaii because we would like to be closer to Japan and be somewhere where being fluent in Japanese is useful. I think he would feel less home-sick in a place where Japanese culture is sort of present (unlike Miami where it is non-existent). We would like to know how much we should ask in terms of pay for our jobs.

How much should we earn combined to live comfortably in Honolulu (or elsewhere if you have any recommendations)? We are very frugal and low maintenance. We eat white rice along with a chicken and veggie stir-fry almost every day and are happy with that haha. Our biggest hobby (volleyball and beach volleyball, which is how we actually met) is free or very inexpensive. We do not eat at fancy restaurants or buy designer clothes/items at all. I am a Puerto Rican man, and I think Hawaii is a perfect middle ground since we are looking for a Japanese presence and a nice island life. We just need a one bedroom/one bathroom space as we've always done.

I know Hawaii is expensive, but we are set on moving. We just wanted others' opinions, advice, words of caution, etc. We would really appreciate it. We are also both men, by the way (in case it matters). I know this has been asked before, but it is always a couple with kids, people with big debts, etc.

Thank you in advance for all your input :)